Living large has been the mantra for many over the years. However, I don’t know if you’ve noticed, but there is growing interest in living tiny. And by tiny, I mean 84 square feet of living space tiny. There are books and blogs and magazines dedicated to this burgeoning movement. In fact, Charlotte recently hosted the Tiny House Conference geared to help educate and train people interested in building their own Lilliputian domain. The conference sold out in short order.
So what’s so appealing about living in a home smaller than 500 square feet? In her book “The Big Tiny: A Built-it-Myself Memoir,” Dee Williams details her journey from a Craftsman-style bungalow to a 95-square foot home on wheels. Williams had been diagnosed with congestive heart failure in her 30’s and after suffering a heart attack at 40, she realized cleaning gutters and tending to the mundane chores that go with home ownership were no longer important. So she sold the Craftsman, built her tiny house and parked it in the yard of her good friends where she has lived happier and much longer than the doctors predicted.
Tiny House enthusiasts have multiple and varied reasons for going small. Some want to live sustainably, others want to be self-sufficient and off the grid, while others are just looking for a way to simplify their lives and focus on the things that matter to them most. That was Dee Williams’ motivation. She realized that it wasn’t stuff that made her happy, but spending time being with friends and doing the stuff she loved that mattered most.
While I don’t think my husband and I and our two cats would be very happy in 95-sqaure feet of living space, I do think we could be quite happy in 1000 square feet. When I look at these tiny houses, I think about how much less there is to clean, and to heat and air-condition. That means more time and money to do the things I like to do, and that equates to more happiness.
But, after living in the same house for more than 20 years, we have accumulated a lot of stuff. Some of that stuff has not seen the light of day in years. In order to move into a 1000 square foot home, I am going to get rid of about 1000 square feet of stuff. And I, like a lot of people, have a hard time doing just that. Never mind that I haven’t used those brown-and-white transfer ware platters in years, or that my Princess Dianna style wedding gown will never fit my much more petite daughter. And what about the drawer of fabric my mother-in-law gave me when she downsized? I don’t even own a sewing machine!
And yet, I know it is time for me to start on this goal. The kids are on the opposite side of the country (and they’re not moving back in!). I love my garden, but I am really beginning to hate maintaining a 50+ year-old house. And someday, making it up those stairs will not be as easy.
I think those platters are heading to the consignment shop this weekend.
Tracy Allen, CFP®